Blake Ramsey

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How My Dad's Chess Set Ended Up on My Shelf

July 1, 2026 · by Blake Ramsey

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Most of what’s on my shelf ends up there because of a review, a game I bought specifically to write about, a book somebody recommended that I picked up with the site in mind. My dad’s chess set isn’t like that. It’s a plain wooden set, decent weight to the pieces but nothing fancy, the kind you’d find in any big box store in the eighties, and it’s the one thing on that shelf that predates the hobby entirely, that predates the site, that predates basically everything I actually write about here.

He taught me on that set when I was maybe seven, patient in a way I didn’t fully appreciate until I tried teaching Priya a genuinely complicated board game years later and understood exactly how much restraint it takes not to just take the win the first fifty times. I wasn’t any good for a long time. He let me lose slowly, gave me just enough of a hint to see the shape of a better move without ever just handing it to me, which in hindsight is a specific kind of teaching skill I don’t think I’ve fully replicated with anyone I’ve taught since.

When he moved a few years back into somewhere smaller, most of his old stuff went to donation or storage, but he asked if I wanted the chess set specifically, no ceremony about it, just are you going to actually use this or should it go with everything else. I said yes before he finished the sentence. It sits on the same shelf as everything I review here, not because it’s ever going to show up as a review itself, chess isn’t exactly new territory that needs my opinion on it, but because it’s the actual root of all of it. Every combo-click moment I chase in a modern engine game, every hour I’ve spent thinking about whether a system’s depth is real or just dressed-up randomness, traces back to a kid learning that a knight moves in an L and a pawn only captures diagonally, on this specific board, across from this specific person.

I don’t play chess on it much anymore, if I’m honest, it’s more of a fixture than an active part of the rotation these days. But it’s the one piece I’d grab first if something ever went wrong in that room, ahead of anything with a fancier box or a bigger price tag. Some things earn their spot on a shelf by being good. That one earned it by being first.